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Ron and Lisa deBray planted 3 trees in memory of Herbert de Bray
Friday, September 22, 2023
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Herbert Ferdinand de Bray
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We are sorry for your loss. Uncle Herb was such a great person and will live on in our memories. We are thinking of you during this difficult time. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Tammy Eborall (Balkwill) donated to HEART STROKE FOUNDATION CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE LAVC DU CANADA
Saturday, September 23, 2023
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Kristin Metvedt uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, September 23, 2023
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My sincerest condolences to the de Bray family.
I fondly remember swimming as a Brock Badger and Herb’s incredible wisdom, guidance, and dedication to his team. May you find strength in knowing he touched the lives of so many young people positively and that he will always be remembered.
Kristin (Herner) Metvedt
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Kirsty Salmon uploaded photo(s)
Friday, September 22, 2023
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As all of you I was shocked and saddened to hear of Herb’s passing. He was a tremendous coach and friend and his advice over my years swimming under his guidance have always stuck with me (“stay in your aura”). Like many of you, where I am today was shaped by my time with Herb.
Big hugs to Mary, Holly, Ben and Megan and the rest of the family. His memories and his legacy will live on.
I looked back at all my photos from my time at Brock. This photo is my locked memory of Herb. Hands on hips. Quiet thoughts projected out at the swimmers. Timeframe? Late 80’s?…not sure which pool and I sadly cannot remember the athletic trainer beside him…
Kirsty
858-322-9313
Ksalmon1@gmail.com
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Greg Philps donated to HEART STROKE FOUNDATION CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE LAVC DU CANADA
Thursday, September 21, 2023
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Sandie Huffman lit a candle
Thursday, September 21, 2023
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To the de Bray Family & friends…I had the pleasure of working with Herb in the Athletics Dept. at Brock University for many years. He was always kind to me and willingly answered any questions I had and was happy to discuss his athletes. It was very evident by the twinkle in his eyes when he spoke, that he loved his career and was passionately proud of his teams and department. He consistently thought of ways to improve the swimming programs at Brock and not only for his athletes, but the community that at large.
I am so very sorry for your loss, but I hope that you all can find some measure of comfort knowing that Herb made an impact on the lives of those that not only worked directly with him, but the communities that he worked/volunteered in…that is his true legacy - impacting people in a positive way that they never forget.
Very Sincerely,
sandie Huffman
P.S. It was always amusing to listen to him correct people on the proper spelling of his name…made me smile
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Baldev Ahluwalia uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, September 21, 2023
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Dear Mary and the deBray family,
I am so sorry for your loss.
I learned and gained much from Herb, both from him directly and from the environments he created and fostered. I spent 11 of my most formative years with Herb, and each day since a lesson learned from that time is put into life. For that I will always be grateful.
Though I appreciated Herb’s leadership, mentorship, dedication and comradery, it is only as a parent that I fully understood his selfless love. It takes immense energy to help people grow, and Herb was great at it.
Again, I am so sorry for your loss, but please know that this news has only brought back wonderful memories for me. Memories that are surprisingly fresh and clear, even though my eyes are not. It is with great regret that I am unable to attend the Celebration of Life. I will be there in spirit and send my love.
Kindest and warmest wishes for you all during this most difficult time,
Baldev
C: 262-424-5418
baldev.s.ahluwalia@gmail.com
(photo from Niagara during a family dinner)
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Deanna hlywka planted a tree in memory of Herbert de Bray
Thursday, September 21, 2023
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My condolences to your family. I spent countless hours in the pool with Herb- unforgettable to say the least. May he RIP. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Andrew "Hassenpfeffer" Morris planted a tree in memory of Herbert de Bray
Thursday, September 21, 2023
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Coach Herb has been a lifelong inspiration, teaching not only how to be fast in the water, but also many life lessons & skills that I use to this day. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Paul Dwyer posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 20, 2023
Unfortunately I will not be able to attend the Celebration on Sunday, Herb was an interesting person, I came to Brock in 81 and met him at Alphie's Trough just behind the Athletic Complex. He initiated his program and developed a number of good athletes. He was hard working and caring head of a new part of the Athletics program. I thoroughly enjoyed his company when he would drop into the Student pub.
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Rob Wallenius planted a tree in memory of Herbert de Bray
Tuesday, September 19, 2023
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Herb helped me an opportunity to grow as a person. I hope that this tree helps continue his legacy for others to experience his impact. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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John, Gabriella, and Alessia planted a tree in memory of Herbert de Bray
Tuesday, September 19, 2023
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Megan, Brad, and the de Bray family,Our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss... Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Elizabeth McCall posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 19, 2023
Herb was an excellent coach and role model for many. I am thinking of all of you at this difficult time
Elizabeth Richardson McCall
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Kathy Ellis uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, September 19, 2023
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Herb had a tremendous impact on so many lives. He was a coach, a leader, a mentor and a friend during my swimming years and then into my coaching years.
Thank you for making a difference in my life and to so many others. You will be missed by so many. My thoughts and prayers to Mary, Holly, Ben, Megan and family during this difficult time.
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Beverley Ritcey donated to HEART STROKE FOUNDATION CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE LAVC DU CANADA
Tuesday, September 19, 2023
Herb was an outstanding coach and a wonderful person .
My condolences to Mary and the family
Regards
Beverley Ritcey
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Brian Wasylowich donated to HEART STROKE FOUNDATION CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE LAVC DU CANADA
Tuesday, September 19, 2023
The list of people is long who will attest to the positive impact Herb had on their lives, especially during their formative years. To so many, he was a coach, a leader, a mentor and a friend. And every one of them, no matter how long ago their last practice was, will feel this loss way deep down inside.
My deepest sympathies to Mary, Holly, Ben, Megan and all the rest of the family.
Rest in peace Herb.
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Katy Ritcey donated to HEART STROKE FOUNDATION CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE LAVC DU CANADA
Tuesday, September 19, 2023
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Kathy Dingley donated to HEART STROKE FOUNDATION CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE LAVC DU CANADA
Tuesday, September 19, 2023
Thinking of the family as you go through this very difficult time. As you know Herb was a very special man and brought a lot of good to many people. He made a huge impact on my life and I would not be the person i am today were it not for Herb and his coaching.
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Roland (Tony) Brundle donated to HEART STROKE FOUNDATION CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE LAVC DU CANADA
Tuesday, September 19, 2023
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Chris Critelli posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 19, 2023
Mary and Family
I was saddened to hear the news of Herb, he was such a gentle man and a joy to work beside. May you find peace with family and friends around you, and may God hold you in his arms during this difficult time.
Chris Critelli
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Tony Nardi donated to HEART STROKE FOUNDATION CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE LAVC DU CANADA
Tuesday, September 19, 2023
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A Memorial Tree was planted for Herbert de Bray
Monday, September 18, 2023
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We are deeply sorry for your loss ~ the staff at George Darte Funeral Chapel Inc. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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The family of Herbert Ferdinand de Bray uploaded a photo
Monday, September 18, 2023
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